When was the last time you needed some encouragement?  Maybe there was a tough bump in your professional road, perhaps a creativity challenge or a personality conflict.  Or perhaps you’d like to be encouraged in general, to help jumpstart an idea you have.  For a fresh outlook on life, you may want to have a copy of this book handy: WOW: A Handbook for Living.  Written by master management coach Zen Ohashi and Japanese musical artist Zono Kurazono, this inspirational and graphically pleasing book is a surefire way to get your spark back.

While one could certainly sit down and read WOW in its entirety in less than an hour, the authors encourage you to take your time about it.  Each page has minimal text and interesting visuals, interspersed with several activities you can try.  To get the best out of the book, read through from start to finish, attempting the activities as written.  After that point, you’ll certainly find yourself returning to WOW again and again, so keep it nearby.  You may just want to flip through later for a few words of encouragement or to find something to spark thought and creativity, and to remind you that the goals you set are worth the effort.

For those of us in business, you’ll find some valuable lessons within that you’ll find helpful not only for your own use, but for recommending to others as well.  But WOW travels well to the home front too, and anyone owning a copy will no doubt find it impossible not to recommend to others.

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Whether we know it or not, we’re constantly sending and receiving signals from one another through the language of our bodies.  Sometimes the signals are clear and other times they’re grossly misinterpreted.  And although many of these signals may vary from culture to culture, much of what our bodies have to say is internationally understood.  Helping us sort it all out is “The Body Language Handbook: How to Read Everyone’s Hidden Thoughts and Intentions” by Gregory Hartley and Maryann Karinch.  This fascinating book gives readers the 101 of Body Language, describing the various signals received and sent, sometimes in the most unintentional ways.

Hartley and Karinch are clear about one thing:  You can’t make a snap judgment about anyone by simply making note of their crossed arms or the way they rub their nose when they talk.  Body language reading goes much deeper than that, requiring one to get a “baseline” on the person being observed.  In other words, one needs to know how the person normally behaves.  Are they standing with their legs apart because they’re trying to take up more space and look more dominant, or do they just have a bad back, for instance?  Oftentimes a cultural difference means a person was raised with slightly different signals, such as in the Middle East where it’s improper to gesture towards someone with your left hand.  Many things come into play when reading body language, and the whole picture – indeed the whole person – must be taken into consideration.

Perhaps that seems overwhelming and difficult to discern, but we already read body language every day.  The Body Language Handbook is filled with photos of people’s facial expressions, posture, and other signals that no doubt you’d recognize.  However, I found that when I first started read the photos for myself, I was trying too hardt.  I second guessed myself, and time and again I found that my first reaction was the right one indeed.  But there were still times when reading someone’s body language from just a photograph was impossible.  I didn’t know until it was explained to me what had happened just moments before certain photographs were taken.  This helped drive the point home that indeed there is much to take into account.

Most surprising to me was what I learned about myself.  I immediately began picking up on signals I use even when no one’s around; for instance digging in my fridge and doubting I’d find what I really wanted to find, I caught myself making a face of disapproval, almost sarcasm, as if to tell the fridge “See, I knew you wouldn’t have what I was looking for!”  I immediately recognized my expression as one from the handbook.  Of course one can do much more than catch themselves making faces at inanimate objects as I did.  Understanding body language can become a useful tool when interacting with others.  Relationships both in and out of work would benefit from putting such knowledge to practice.  Improved communication will no doubt begin to grow as you learn how to better understand others and project yourself.

The Body Language Handbook is meant to be read straight through first to lay a foundation, but after one has done that, it can be used as a helpful reference.  The book is well written and easy to understand, and both authors bring a lot of knowledge and experience to the table.  Gregory Hartley taught both interrogation and resistance to interrogation for the U.S. Army and has also provided body language and behavioral analysis for print, TV, and radio.  Maryann Karinch has authored five other books with Gregory Hartley, all dealing with human behavior, deception, and body language, which includes How to Spot a Liar.  She’s held senior communications positions with a variety of companies in the technology industry.

The Body Language Handbook: How to Read Everyone’s Hidden Thoughts and Intentions ($15.99 retail) is published by Career Press.